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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most women are controlling... men must...

clean kitchen including wipe stove, sweep, wipe all counters, nothing soaking or they are children
put kids to bed exactly how she does
do morning routine exactly how she does. 
when she goes out she comes home and immediately does a full analysis of what food was fed to the kids, homework checks, bedtime checks and they yells at husband because spelling words still need to be done (call the presses)

I can't even imagine how men deal with these women and pay all the bills and support their "hobbies". WTF... why did you ever let it get this bad.

You let her become a child and now she is acting like a child. Get a job!

Sure she will get 1/2 but you say get therapy for your anxiety or GTFO.

Come on man![/quote]

The things you are complaining about doing seem like normal things.  Didn’t your parents do these things while you were growing up (Wipe counters, sweep the floor, do the dishes, go over your spelling words, put kids to bed)?

I would be annoyed too if this stuff wasn’t done.  I would have planned on having an evening out with friends and then coming home, maybe have a drink, and have sex with my husband.  Now I have to finish cleaning the kitchen, scrub whatever is soaking in the sink, and plan on getting my kid up early in the morning so we can go over spelling words.  That kind of sucks.

Anyway, this all seems pretty normal and very different from what the OP is talking about.  [/quote]

Those things can wait till the next day. I learned not to be OCD, crazy control freak. Did you mom hit you with wire hangers if you used them?

No actually you don’t have to finish scrubbing leave it … live a little.[/quote]

You know what, if my husband was like, “I am planning to get up extra early tomorrow morning/get home from work early tomorrow afternoon and get the dishes done and the kitchen cleaned up,” I would be totally fine with that.

In reality though, the next day, he leaves for work at 6:45 and doesn’t do them.  The kids and I have to get ready and leave by 7:30 and we don’t do them.  No one is home until 4:30 in the afternoon, and then there is soccer and ballet and piano and homework.  He shows up at 6:00 expecting dinner (because he is the main breadwinner and I work part time), and the kitchen still isn’t wiped down and the dishes are still in the sink.  
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Definitely time to divorce him. [/quote]

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