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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]New phone behavior for sure.

Dh did not have an affair, but was in the beginning stages, I think (he denies it). He had the phone on him all the time-- if he got up at 4 am to switch beds (I'm nursing, he snores) he'd take it with him. And he put a passcode on it for the first time--then in the car asked me to make a call so told me the code. My suspicions aroused at this point, I later tried the code. Didn't work. He had changed it.  So clearly, the passcode was to lock ME out. Found out through other means (email) that he was in contact with an ex in an inappropriate way. I blew my stack and then got us into couples therapy stat. I never mentioned the phone thing to him, how that got me suspicious--but I've noticed he no longer hides the phone, leaves it out and there's no code on it. I also leave mine out, no passcode. I know he occasionally reads my email and texts--and you know what? I don't care. I have nothing to hide. [/quote]

I'm in a similar situation, except the other woman is not an ex bu[b]t someone he met online[/b].  There hasn't been anything physical at this point that I can gather; he says they're just friends.  [b]There has been some very inappropriate communication[/b].  How long were you in therapy?  Does he love you? [/quote]

I would be worse than angry.  A totally unacceptable way for a married man to behave.  Do she even know he is married?[/quote]

yes, he divulged it before their first meeting.  Initially, she said she was only looking for friendship.  But dh has made some sexual comments and she has taken the bait, so she made the comment about licking his body and coming to our house in the middle of the night.

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