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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here, with the abusive ex.

First of all, Greenlight cards don't seem to track the cards.  The tracking is through the Greenlight app.  So, if the phone goes to school, it doesn't matter if the card does. At least that's my understanding.  I would delete the app and make sure that location sharing is off on your kid's phone at all times.

I think that if you want to tackle this, you need to make it very clear that it's you setting the limit, and not your kid setting the limit.  So, if you have supervised custody exchanges, remind the kid at the custody exchange that the card stays with Dad and watch him hand it over.  Or have your attorney send his something saying that the card will stay in a drawer.  Or whatever.

I wouldn't just put it in the drawer, and then expect the kid to explain to Dad that the reason it looks like he didn't go to school is because kid chose to obey you rather than Dad.

If your ex isn't abusive towards the kid, that might change my answer, but I don't have experience with that situation. 
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So if I have the Greenlight app on my phone can he track me even if I didn’t choose to turn on location services?[/quote]

I don't know.  As a parent with a stalker ex, it's not an app I'd allow on my phone or my kid's phone.

We have location services turned off most of the time but it sometimes gets turned on for things like uber, so I would want to be careful.  [/quote]

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