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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That seems like something my wife would send me, or I would send her, if one of us was traveling or leaving early and it was garbage day.  I probably would have added some pleasantries or terms of affection, but that's just me.

I see nothing wrong with it.  [/quote]

I (DW) have in the past sent this to DH, and he hates it.  But it took a long time for him to tell him and it eventually boiled over.  I manage a bunch of people and would write with more courtesy to them.  I try and make an effort to text requests with more courtesy to DH.[/quote]

What would "more courtesy" look like?
I thought OP was upset because there is too much courtesy, so it looks like a coworker.

BTW, this sort of disagreement about "courtesy" usually happens because the wider context lacks intimacy. For a marriage to man, that usually means physical affection is absent. [/quote]

NP, but in my house it would read something like "hey, sweetheart, could you take the trash out please? Also there's those grass clippings. Thanks, I love you!"[/quote]
At my house:
Don't forget trash
Later on:
You forgot the grass clippings  :(

There would be no hurt feelings but maybe because we are never condescending or demanding in person so we wouldn't read each other's texts like that. This text could go from dh to dw or the other way just as easily.[/quote]

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