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[quote=Anonymous]Wow! My heart goes out to you OP. I agree with others in that don’t move not one iota. He is making an emotional decision on something that is contractual and in the eyes of the court - emotions won’t be considered. They will look at the terms of the agreement only. For the time being, document and collect every bill you have paid half on and proof of payment towards mortgage. Next step- shut down communication. Don’t get into why he wants to break up or any of it. Just shut down your emotions. Feed your children, get on the phone with an attorney, sleep in the bedroom with them and get on a schedule so you can avoid this jackass. For your own mental sake start looking for an apartment or an Airbnb and just line up a place to land. If I knew you in real life I would open my home. You can’t change the past and no shame in your reason for moving in before a ring or any of that. People do switcharoos all the time. Have a good cry in private spaces and then screw your head on to keep moving. And when/if he comes to his senses - you need to be so far gone from his life that he has to use a shovel to dig you up from his memory. My heart goes out to you! Sending a special prayer for you on this day. [/quote]
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