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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He’s been out of work for 8 months? Time for him to get a job. Any job. He needs to stop being so picky. Even if he only makes half of his former income, that would be better than nothing.

Also, make him do ALL the housework until he gets a job. Why do you pay cleaners when he is home and you are spending more than you make?[/quote]

You are really an a$$hole.  Can’t imagine being married to such a demanding shrew completely lacking in empathy.  If the guy had cancer would you feel the same way?  Mental illness is real. [/quote]

Yes, and keeping busy is really good for mental illness.   [/quote]

"Keeping busy" because your spouse laid out ultimatums and demanded you become the housekeeper "because you're being picky about jobs and you're home" is not the kind of keeping busy which will make a mentally ill person feel better. [/quote]

So how long should OP coddle her husband? forever? [/quote]

The use of "coddle" tells us that you really have no understanding of mental illness. And there is no magical, arbitrary deadline you or I or OP can set on how long the DH might be dealing with this. Such extreme hardass answers here from people who (as one PP rightly noted) don't get that mental illness is an illness and situations like OP's are not black-and-white ones with clear solutions and deadlines.[/quote]

Well considering OP doesn’t say he has a mental illness, wtf are you talking about [/quote]

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