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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, I replied to your old thread. My husband had a long distance (but PA) affair 8ish years ago. I mean, everything you feel is normal. You have to incorporate this trauma/betrayal into your understanding of your marriage, yourself, your life. It's a lot. What I see with you and your DH is just a lot of, maybe, nervous energy thrown at being the best reconcilers ever. And mainly I think that's a good thing. You don't want the alternative. But the truth is that there are no short cuts to grief and acceptance. And for your DH, he can't A+ his way out of shame. So I would just caution you two to make sure that you aren't distracting yourselves from anything with your super duper efforts. But overall, I'm glad that your DH is making the effort, even if he sometimes overshoots.[/quote]
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