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[quote=Anonymous]I think I posted on your other thread, I'm a WS who reconciled and helps others on another website that are in my position. The HS GF thing is not good. There have been many instances on my website where two people start PMing each other to help each other, and it grows and takes on a life of its own as an EA. One of them exploded in real time on a thread when the man started saying "she's crazy" and she started saying "you said you'd leave for me." Anyway, when I started on that site, I made a promise to myself that I would not PM a man. So if I had a question or comment I always posted in a thread that everyone could see, and my H could see if he wanted to.

For those saying "he can talk to whoever he wants," yes, of course he can. That's not the point. The point is that transparency after breaking trust is a big step toward healing. And OP's H wasn't transparent, despite him wanting help. Because even that can sometimes turn the wrong way (like my above story).

You don't have to make a decision now on how you want to move forward, just like you didn't four months ago. You are gathering facts and working through them in order to make the best choice for yourself and your family. Good luck to you.[/quote]

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