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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your voice is so clear in your writing and it's obvious that you are self-aware. Everything you are feeling is so normal. I know you have heard this, but it really does take 2-5 years to heal from cheating - unfortunately, you just can't rush this processing period. It does sound like your DH is one of the "model" recovering wayward spouses. Especially for a man (as gender-stereotyped as that is), I am impressed with how well he is exploring his emotions and anticipating yours. The fact that he reached out to your best friend to apologize and did not tell you about it to win points, etc. really speaks volumes about where he is at in therapy and realizing how to help you heal. I have been following your story since the beginning and hope you to continue to update, and I hope your updates continue to chart a successful path to a really strong marriage.[/quote] I agree. I’be been so impressed with OP and the latest update on the huge communication improvements by her DH seem really positive. I’m still rooting for this marriage to survive and be even better. [/quote]
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