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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My niece did this for awhile (not in the DC or NYC area).  Basically on the weekends she stayed with her boyfriend who had his own apt, no roommates.  Because she  only stayed 2 days a week, it did not violate his lease terms regarding guests.  She would hang out there a couple nights a week after work but sleep at her nanny's house.

I think she did it a little over a year and ended things on good terms with the family.  She just matured out of the arrangement.[/quote]

It's nice that it worked out for you niece, but it doesn't sound like an ideal situation.   If a nanny is depending on staying at a boyfriend's house every weekend, it puts her in a vulnerable position.   What if he becomes abusive, or starts using drugs?  She'll feel obligated to still stay with him so she isn't homeless every weekend.  Or what if they just break up, or he gets a new job opportunity and needs to move?[/quote]

My partner is significantly older than I am.  I'm looking to move in with him ([b]he's planning on proposing after I move in[/b]), and I'm going to transition from 24/7 to a new family who needs 14-24 hour coverage weekdays and is fine with live-out M-F when the parent is home.  I will still do 24/7 when the parent travels.[/quote]

This is a weird post.
1.  What does it have to do with the post you quoted?
2.   Why is he waiting to propose after you move in?  Either he wants to marry you or he doesn't. [/quote]

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