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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn’t ask for the divorce but completely agree with it. I am worried about the financial fallout but I feel much less anxiety and less walking on eggshells and less waiting for my spouse to blow up. Kids have no idea we are splitting up (although my oldest elementary kid has brought it up probably sensing the tension). Sometimes we get along great. Sometimes it’s just managing the passive aggressive comments, yelling, or bodily nervousness. [b]I would love to have a good coparenting relationship where we can still do things together as a family-holidays, birthdays, dinners, vacations[/b]. We are in the beginning stages of divorce and so won’t tell kids for a while since we are still living together.  [/quote]

Gently, OP- I have a good coparenting relationship with my ex and we don't do any of these things (aside from outside-the-home birthday like at a venue and with other people attending). We are much happier apart. Our kids get to have these events without any fighting or tension. I'm happy for my dc when they have a good vacation or holiday with their dad.  OP if your dc is bringing up divorce, they are seeing/feeling the tension. [/quote]

I am divorced. We do kids’ birthdays and a weekend a year at the beach. We do a family dinner about 6 times a year with the kids at a restaurant. We did not do that married. No holidays. We split them. [/quote]

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