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Reply to "Do you think you'll do it again...cheating..."
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[quote=Anonymous]Of course both parties are to blame. But cheating doesn't justify the fact that someone else did something wrong. That's why you divorce, or work on things, not when you cheat. Cheating is not about a bad marriage, cheating is about filling something in you that you should be filling for yourself. People seek shit out all the time from other people and it's temporary, it won't get you anything in the long run. I don't give a crap if people cheat or not. But don't blame the other person or say stuff like "it's complicated. life is not black and white." Bullshit. At least own it. If you wanted temporary fun, a thrill to avoid dealing with the pain of real life, to numb yourself for a bit, fine. But why not just say, yeah, did that. It was selfish. Oh well. I moved on. I don't get the justification. Just own it. It's called cheating for a reason, and everyone gets cheated to some degree - the spouse, the person who in the affair, the affair partner.[/quote]
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