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[quote=Anonymous]So happy with some of these other nuanced responses! OP, I also have had my moments of “what am I doing wrong, it must be everything!!” with my oldest. I didn’t realize until around 4 how different she was from other kids; the preschool teachers clued me in and I eventually also realized we had been accommodating more than ideal. But you have to ease off it and also, to some extent, ask yourself which accommodations are problematic. My kids have never been camping and probably never will because we all all crap sleepers and I don’t want to have to deal with the suffering after a night in a tent. I think that’s fine. But getting used to being a tiny bit wet, or helping her figure out how to deal with being wet on her own before kindergarten is a good idea. Just survive this trip and think about it at home when you are calm. FWIW my kid ended up with ADHD and anxiety diagnoses. But therapy and medication (and maturity!) have helped so much. Today someone referred to her as “such an easy kid” and I nearly fell out of my chair. It’s always good to get professional help when you need it. Good luck![/quote]
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