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Reply to "DH does not take care of any life administration tasks"
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[quote=Anonymous]You can just keep being resentful or you can accept that he needs you to put some scaffolds in place. Instead of “assigning” tasks, set aside a block of time where you BOTH can work on the unsexy stuff—the bill paying, responses to invitations, calls to parent, etc. Meet at the kitchen table on Sunday from 8-9pm. Put it on the calendar. Write it in bold and post on the fridge and bathroom mirror: Weekly check in tonight 8pm Kitchen Table. Both of you have their phone and laptop there. Just get it all done sitting there together. Make a list and cross off items as you get them done. Make that time sacred. Then you can have a glass of wine together and have some sex. Or just go to bed. The bottom line is that you both need some structure. [/quote]
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