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[quote=Anonymous] OP - Getting change going without your DH being on the same page is going to be difficult. Maybe you should find a counselor who could have a couple of sessions with you both so that you can explain to your husband how you are feeling and how the current lifestyle is only enabling your oldest son and preventing him from continuing to gain independence and a life of his own. You both could benefit from strategies in how to reshape "home life." On the girl friend, DS needs to be told clearly what the rules for having her over are, and that if he wants to spend more time together, they can do so out of the house or over at her house. He obviously can work enough to cover expenses which are important to him, but you realize that he is not bothering to extend his work hours to cover typical "dating or socializing" costs as your home is at no cost. Being on the spectrum is no excuse for his rude behavior in not following your house rules. [/quote]
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