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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would wait and see how things go. Do not be hasty. It sounds like there are now a lot of positives.[/quote] Most people would feel the same as you do. He did a lot of damage and trauma to you. People - and bodies/minds/health - don’t forget that. A couple months of best behavior because he’s been outed to others is peanuts compared to years of emotional and psychological abuse and neglect. You wait and see for another year how you feel. Try a new job or friend group or go in girl trips. But then either make peace with 50/50 divorce (the people who gray divorce are because of neglectful or out-of-it fathers/ risk to the kids) OR just stay detached and for the kids and improving yourself. Make some trips or plans or house items to look FW to in the meantime. [/quote]
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