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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, my older DS brings you in and out of her life when it's most convenient for her.  It is a running joke in our family.  It never bothered me until COVID and we all thought the end of the world was upon us.  I lived literally 10 mins from her house and she spoke to me twice over a thirteen month period of time.  And [b]before you nut jobs pipe in[/b], yes I tried and tried to see her but was constantly put off, still sent those flowers and bd/holiday gifts.  She finally gifted me with a visit and shared what her life was like for the past year and that did it for me.  Massages with her traveling masseuse at her house, lunches with a  variety of friends at her house, visits with my nephew and niece at her house, but no time for me.  It hurt, really hurt to finalize realize that what my DH had said about her for years was actually true.  The world is coming to an end (lol, or so we thought) and I was the last person she wanted to see.  I've since sold my house, moved onto our vacation home until we decide our next stop.  She has no idea, and I do not believe she will feel an ounce of emotion once she figures it out.  In my mind, I'm an only child.  Oh well.[/quote]

Using phrases like the bolded is not a good way to get helpful comments.  It's judgmental and inappropriate.  If you get feedback that you don't like or that doesn't help just ignore it.  Don't insult people before they have even typed a word.[/quote]

No one on this board needs your lectures.  Go away.[/quote]

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