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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have regular sitters and try to go out at least once a week as a couple.

Most people I meet seem only interested in socializing as a family.  [b]I rarely meet a couple or woman who is open to getting together without kids.  It makes me feel strange that I seem to have this desire for independence that other women don’t seem to have.  When I go out with adults I also don’t feel the need to talk about kids.  [/b]

The other day I got together with a mom and her child and found out the mom of a 7 year old has never had a babysitter.  What?!  I can’t fathom this and don’t understand how this happens.  It’s not a financial thing.  I do think there are a lot of women living like this these days and perhaps it’s anxiety.

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Are you hanging out with SAHMs? In my friend group (which includes friends from high school, college, jobs, and neighborhood), we all work, and we all take time away from our kids. My high school and college friends aren't local so we travel to see each other 4 times a year. Professional and neighborhood friends we do dinners, weekend activities, trips, etc. Only one of these friends doesn't work, and she's the one who is always the hardest to make plans with. Maybe it's a coincidence.[/quote]

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