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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What would we do if we lost our jobs?
Dogs, cats, neither, both?
What if one of us becomes more or less religious ten years from now?
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It’s too easy for a narcissist or masking spectrum person to provide socially acceptable canned responses to all these questions.

The problem is when they say one thing/ what they are guessing you want to hear, and then later do whatever the hell they want or the easy way out for them. [/quote]

Q & A sessions are useless, spend two years to really get to know real person behind the social facade, one of which you two live together. Don't marry before that.[/quote]

This plus:
If you met in school or grade school, date while working don’t just get engaged

Have the other plan something- like a 5+ day vacation - and see (a) if they can plan stuff, (b) if the plan makes any sense, (c) if you too think the same about budget and money, and (d) how do they do when something goes “off plan.”

Unf my spouse was tasked with “planning” the honeymoon while we both worked and I did the wedding planning and executing.  All he did was book flights, super expensive resorts and when asked what we’d do daily for the week he just dumped it on me and also said “let’s ask the concierge.”

The other weekend trip he had “planned” while we were dating was a bust. Drove to the mountains in late fall, were the only ones in an empty cottage building, and I had us moved to the main building where at least there were some people and a restaurant. Bizarre. [/quote]

This is a weird post. His way of doing things was fine.

He booked flights and hotels. That’s all I do when I travel. I figure out activity when I get there mostly.

And personally I would far prefer the empty cottage building over the main lodge.

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