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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I lived together with DH for three years before getting married. It's seven years later and we have two kids..... I will caveat with this -- I don't see the point of having a live-in boyfriend if you are too young -- I think that early 20s should be sent playing the fields as women rather than cereal monogamy to get used to living on your own for a while.... For example, I think that it might be a mistake to move in with boyfriend straight out of college b/c you never get a sense of independence.... But to each their own![/quote]

I got married right out of college.  Was 22.  I have a friend that lived with her DH right out of college for 10 years before they got married.  We both had kids about 28-30.

I think we both made mistakes because we never really experienced living on our own for a while and playing the field.  We both regret it and now we are in our 40's we are considering having an affair or divorcing our spouses.  We just want to experience being with other people and making decisions independently.  I think marrying or living together was less important than the fact of how young we were when we began living with our significant others.[/quote]

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