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[quote=Anonymous]Your mother is in a toxic co dependent relationship with your brother. It can and probably is much worse than her just bankrolling him now. She feels that he is entitled to everything and you are entitled to nothing. She probably isn’t thinking ahead financially but if pushed probably expects that you should come to their rescue financially. She may even harbor expectations that you will support your brother after she’s gone. She’s eyeing your husband’s family”s money as another potential source for your brother.

You should ignore the crazy text and cyber stalking. Be calm and clear with her, that you and your husband who are completely financially independent need to save for your children. Tell her with the cost of college and your own retirement She needs a financial plan for her and your fathers long term care. Be clear that her trying to figure out how much your father in law is worth as her financial plan is not going to pan out for her.

Get therapy or internally start accepting that you’ll need to walk away. At the least they will continue only giving to him and taking from you. At the most, they will attempt to saddle you with your brother as a financial burden. [/quote]

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