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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does he do this for pooping as well? [/quote]

Yes, poop and pee.

I tried recently (since posting this) and it was the most annoying 30+ minute stand off. He had an accident in the floor, it freaked him out, he wouldn't finish unless I came in the bathroom with him, he was sobbing hysterically. I tried to ignore but it just didn't stop and he didn't go.

I think I just have to not mention it any more and hope it passes one day. I have no clue. [/quote]
So you set a boundary.
He pushed back
You held firm.
He escalated
You gave in

I don't think this is a potty issue or at least not primarily.

See if you can get in with a behavior or parenting coach.

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You have made it worse.  You tried to set a boundary and he won.  Now he knows next time he can win and will respond accordingly.  I'm a big fan for talking a big change up for several days.  Make sure he totally knows it coming.  Then you stand firm.  No exceptions.  It will be even harder than the first time because he's already learned you will cave.  If he throws a tantrum you make sure he's safe and walk away.  Expect the standoff to last a long time and be prepared for it.  You need to be more stubborn than he is.  If you can't do it then I wouldn't try.  [/quote]

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