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[quote=Anonymous]OP is being unfair. I work, as does DH, and we could choose to live on his salary (albeit not as nicely as we do with his and mine combined), but I chose to keep working because it's fulfilling and I don't have a career that you can just take time off to raise a family for and jump back into X years later. DH, however, works from home, so he's spared the 3+ hours worth of commuting I have to do every day. That's the dividing line: He can do laundry, etc., around his work and has more hours in the day than I do because of his lack of a commute. Therefore he takes on some additional responsibilities that feel more in my ballpark pre-baby. It was tough going at first, but this isn't about money, it's about time and what you both want/need. OP, if you continue to hold this over your DH's head like this, you had been find yourself a divorce attorney.[/quote]
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