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[quote=Anonymous]As a white person often invited to multicultural parties I prefer a little direction. Yes, please bring a dessert. If everyone brought something I’d feel bad if I didn’t, but I’d at least bring flowers. When I have a party I don’t want 100 desserts so it makes sense to give direction, it’s not rude. If I show up with a dessert and there are too many desserts I’d think ugh I wish I knew to bring x, of course I would not say that. We had a catholic funeral and my non-Catholic friends called to find out what was appropriate food/customs/etc. it was not my family I was adjacent so it made sense to ask me. [/quote]
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