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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Although this discussion should perhaps be taken to a spinoff thread, as this thread is interesting and it would be a shame to hijack it.[/quote]

Oops - sorry. If anyone wants me to take it to a new thread, I will. You know, I've thought about opening up the marriage.  At this point though, we both work full-time and we have two preschoolers. We hardly have enough time for each other and the kids, let alone other people. And you can never be sure with STDs you know - herpes and HPV in particular and I honestly don't trust him enough to have no genital contact with anyone else, so I'd insist on condoms with the two of us at all times too which would suck. I also don't trust his judgement in terms of keeping our relationship mess-free (like choosing discrete women) and keeping it all away from the kids.  And I'm personally one that has always had emotional attachment when I've slept with someone, so I almost see opening it up as a beginning of the end for our marriage anyhow. He'd probably be happy just to screw around and come home to us, but I can see myself meeting someone else and wanting to leave him anyway.

In short, it is something I've considered, but I don't know that it would improve things at all. [/quote]

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