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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As someone who is currently trying to keep my family together after my husband had an affair that started on a business trip, this thread is really difficult to read. [/quote]

So stop reading it.[/quote]

Yeah I probably should. It's actually making me want to just give up on trying to continue my marriage. I'm trying because we have two young kids and the thought of shuttling them back and forth, missing out on large parts of their lives, and being a single mom for the other parts is the only thing keeping me trying. But reading these posts is just making me think that my husband, who had one of these accidental 
affairs, is just the way he is and that there's nothing preventing him from doing it again. He'll probably just be more careful next time.

Seems like there are people who prefer monogamy (I do personally, but I'd say mostly for avoiding STDs and other messiness in life) and those people who strongly prefer to sleep with many people, of which I think my husband is one. Unfortunately we're very well-matched in other areas. It's a shame we're not well-matched in this one and I wish I'd known the importance of that (and that he'd been more honest about it himself) before we had kids. I would never have brought children into the world if I had been able to imagine where we'd be today. Then I would be free just to leave him and he could be free to sleep with whoever he wanted. [/quote]

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