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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree you were wrong, but a friend who can’t forgive the misstep is a friend who would desert you at some point anyway. I think you’re better off without the friend. The fact the nanny isn’t willing to work with the friend to find a replacement for you means the nanny wants to move on, not just from you, but from your friend as well, and that’s not your fault. I don’t believe the nanny cares whether it would be awkward between you two (why would she care about that?) she is just using it as an excuse to move on. Sorry, OP, but I think if it hadn’t been this, it would have been something else with these two.[/quote]

I don’t know. It’s a pretty big deal to ruin your friend’s childcare arrangements. [/quote]
I think it’s the nanny that’s ruining the childcare relationship with the friend. The nanny could just “fire” OP. The fact that she won’t means she isn’t interested in working with the friend, and that’s not OP’s fault. I think nanny would have left sooner rather than later anyway,  not only because of OP.[/quote]

Did you read the OP? It was long, but she did say the nanny needed the share rate and the friend couldn’t afford it. [/quote]

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