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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister is you OP.

She has a 13-year-old DD that she hates with a passion. And boy does my neice know she's known since she was around five.

I am saying this with kindness, she did this to her child. She is the problem She refuses to understand all the situations that lead to her child hating her.

No one ever said parenting was easy and every child is different.

In my sisters case she wanted a petite cheerleader popular daughter, what she got was a daughter that looks exactly like her dad and has a personality like him or his family. A nerd a lovely funny smart loving nerd.

I am just letting you know you are not the only one feeling this way however you need help working through this you are the parent your child is a child.

This behavior was caused by you.[/quote]

Her grandmother was dropped off at an orphanage due to combative behavior.  Her mother, so the great-grandmother, was shipped away by her parents at age 16.  It ain't me.[/quote]

This has to be a troll. You don't accept any responsibility at all for how your family got into this situation? How do you explain how she behaves with others?[/quote]

What is your problem? This is not a troll just because you cannot fathom the traumas that other people have been through? My family history (of my father and back) would make your toes curl, not in a good way.

OP is here TRYING TO BE RESPONSIBLE and fix this situation. You are not helping. And you are an awful person for piling on like this. Be helpful or GTFOH.[/quote]

How is she trying to be responsible? She gave up on therapy after 2 times and wants to pack her kid off to a relative. She is not seeking a new diagnosis or pursuing any other therapy. She refuses to acknowledge she (OP) played any role in getting where they are and its only the daughter's fault. [/quote]

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