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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DD hates me.  She is hostile with me, like yells back at me if I interact with her, unless she is asking me for something, and sometimes she is violent.  I never want to be around her.  She has been this way since age 2, now age 12.  Combative with me from the moment she wakes up, but not with others.   I am at the point today that I would consider sending her to live with an aunt or grandparent if they would take her because she clearly hates me.  Any other moms have this experience?  Any insights?  I tried therapy twice for her, but went nowhere.[/quote]

Have you tried therapy for yourself?[/quote]

OP this post made my stomach hurt. Please get some therapy for yourself, even maybe read the parenting book good inside so you can understand attachment theory and how to repair the relationship. You need to remember she is a child is a good kid having a hard time.

“Understanding that we’re all good inside is what allows you to distinguish a person (your child) from a behavior (rudeness, hitting, saying, “I hate you”). Differentiating who someone is from what they do is key to creating interventions that preserve your relationship while also leading to impactful change.”

“many parents see behavior as the measure of who our kids are, rather than using behavior as a clue to what our kids might need.”

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