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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We don't commingle any accounts and never will.

We each own a home we bought before we were married.

Wills haven't changed (all to my kids) but I did put him as the beneficiary to one of my savings. [/quote]

What a shitty thing to have to settle this much for companionship.

I will regret my first marriage as long as I live, it leads to garbage like this and what is the point.

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What are you even going on about?  The PP is very smart to not blend.  If both parties have means and kids there's no reason they can't preserve their own estates for their children.

I'm the same, my assets are in a trust.  My (second) husband has his own assets.  I have no interest in them.  And he has no interest in mine.  We are both self sufficient but we also don't nickle and dime things like meals out.  We split who pays but no one is keeping score.  It works for us.  [/quote]

Well part of my dream for a family is building a joint lifestyle and legacy, which is pretty much impossible in this situation.[/quote]

Translation: A man is the plan, i need his money and I don't want it to go to his kids.[/quote]

More like: a man is work and I don’t work for free. [/quote]

I respect prostitution as a profession if it’s your choice. Stay safe [/quote]

Men don’t value what they don’t pay for. I’m not talking about sex. If a man won’t share his money with you he doesn’t love you. [/quote]

I love my partner very much but I am not commingling my kids' future assets with his finances and assets.[/quote]

So you have love but no trust or confidence in your partnership, and you are dedicating your time to someone who won’t provide anything for you and vice versa. Sounds brutal.[/quote]

I am the widow with 3 kids who posted above about keeping everything separate if I were to marry again. Trust and confidence have nothing to do with it. My late husband and I made financial (and many other) decisions based on our children's present and future lives. There is no way someone who is not their parent could be that invested. Any mature person will understand that. Anyone who doesn't understand that is not the person for me. [/quote]

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