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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t underestimate his grief and anger at your diagnosis. He needs a mental health counselor to help him deal with this. Does he know what your prognosis is? Do you tell him in advance what your treatment schedule is? Does he know the effects of your treatment on you? I’m speaking as the mom of 3 kids whose father has cancer. Kids do not process a cancer diagnosis like adults do. He must be terrified and yet he has no one he can rely on completely. He needs someone healthy to lean on, OP. Please don’t give him up for adoption. He does need you now. Honestly unless you know someone who will take him right now he might just end up in a f- up foster care home. I am very sorry his father won’t help him or you. [/quote] +1 can you lean on a support group? Church group? I also think it's related to your cancer rx. I have a teen DD, and she is super close to me. I think she would be a mess if I had cancer, but at least she has her dad and brother, and good friends and their families.[/quote]
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