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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes money provides so much. Where does it fall on your list of priorities? If you have money is it important that you let other people know by material things? Do you assume people are jealous of you? It seems like many responses point to money money money being the driving factor. [/quote] Money is very high on my list because I come from a poor family. I'm the first one in my family to go to college. I have escaped poverty and I now consider myself UMC. I have experienced growing up that rich people are treated with more respect. The poor are ignored and disrespected. [b]I buy expensive things to let other people know that I have money. Everywhere I go, I'm more respected and I'm getting better services because of it.[/b] [/quote] Are you a minority? Because I'm a waspy looking white woman and I do NOT buy expensive things (although I maintain a very neat and tidy appearance) and do not find I am lacking respect or services. [/quote] Not PP, but I do think minorities, especially Latinos and African Americans, wouldn’t have the same customer service experience across the board that you take for granted. I think sometimes minorities are racially profiled as shoplifting risks, etc. if it doesn’t appear like they are wealthy. [/quote] Yes, I’m AA and I an always deliberate about looking put together and stealth wealth signaling so that I get better/acceptable treatment. And it’s true, I’ve had (white) people go from not acknowledging me to asking me out to eat once they see a Bottega Veneta purse, or learning where I went to school, etc. it’s gross that it makes a difference, but it does.[/quote] Curious, how do you practice stealth wealth [u]and[/u] look put together / wear a Bottega Veneta purse -- which I assume is expensive since you're mentioning the name. Sounds like a contradiction. [/quote]
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