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He was asked to interview for a position in his company that, according to him, is a 6 month trial with no pay raise, but it puts him in front of people like the CEO, and gives him management experience. It is VERY demanding, will have zero flexibility on scheduling, and will require travel. In his words, it could either make or break his career - if he does well, it could lead to a permanent position with a very significant pay raise, or if he does poorly, he will basically be stuck in his current role permanently.

I was blunt and told him that his time management sucks, he is lazy[/quote]
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There is a very obvious contradiction here. He would not even be considered for such a position if his time management sucks and he is lazy.[/b]

This just sounds like the standard DW whine that DH is not doing everything she wants exactly as she wants it done and (stamps foot) this means he is a good-for-nothing man-baby. Whatever. Go ahead and blow up your family because there are some dirty dishes on the counter.  :roll: [/quote]

As a self-aware slob ... yes, actually it is possible he's lazy. I'm very lazy around the house and my DH and I had to come up with some bare-minimum standards we always maintain. Otherwise I would leave clothes to rot on the floor for months and leave dishes to pile up. I am excellent with time management at work. Not a contradiction.

I am a woman, FWIW.[/quote]

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