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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, thank you to everyone who responded.  They read these responses over the weekend and I think it helped them feel very supported knowing people out there actually cared about this issue.

Yesterday, they spoke to their guidance counselor who worked with the teacher to clarify the dress code.  The teacher is now saying she meant no disrespect and [b]only those who identify as boys vs girls need to wear the outfits...etc.[/b]

Not my favorite response, but my child feels good about it and plans on wearing pants (as well as several other girls who identify as girls) for their performance.  [/quote]

I’m glad your DD is happy, but I want to be clear that the teacher’s “fix” (“those who identify as boys versus girls need to
wear the outfits”) is still illegal discrimination under Title IX.  No teacher should be requiring kids to wear a certain outfit based on the way they identify (neither in terms of gender, sexuality or biological sex).

What the teacher can say is that there are two outfits to wear - one with pants and one with a skirt - and all students need to be wearing one of those two outfits - whichever they prefer.  Any student who feels like they will have trouble meeting the dress code should contact her and she will help to work something out. (This allows kids who cannot obtain or wear elements of the outfit to ask for support or accommodation.)[/quote]

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