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[quote=Anonymous]Irrelevant of your feelings on this, your boss noticed and commented, so the culture of your office (rightly or wrongly) is to judge people based on their presence at these events. I think it would be a kindness to tip off your junior employees. They may be thinking "not mandatory means totally optional, this is just for people who WANT to go" and have absolutely no idea that their absences are noted and commented on. I would NOT bring this up in their annual review - it is not relevant to their immediate work, and it was optional. But I would try and give them a heads up, because if I were in their shoes, I'd want to know. Something casual, off the record, like at the end of a phone call. "Hey, just a small thing - Big Boss noticed you weren't at either of the holiday events. I know they are optional, so you have every right not to come, but I figured if I were in your shoes I'd want a heads up that she does pay attention. I think it might help her impression of you if you were able to attend things like this when they come up. If there's anything I can do to make that easier for you, let me know."[/quote]
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