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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. How do I respond when DH is angry that I hired someone to fix the shower? There is no way he will say thanks or even say nothing. He will definitely be annoyed.

And to the PP who asked if I am a money waster, no I am not. DH and I definitely disagree on what is a worthwhile use of money and what is not, but [b]at the end of every discussion, he has the final say[/b]. I have conditioned myself to be very frugal over the years in response to his behavior. [/quote]

This is a problem.

He is controlling you through money.

You and he should be able to agree that this year we want to get these 5 home projects done and then you go off and handle it and that's the end.  The idea that you need to report back to him with quotes or discuss every cent spent?  No. 
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+1. You solve this problem by both of you agreeing that this pattern is a problem and putting a system in place so that you don't have to have this discussion. The fact that your have conditioned your self to give in to your husband regarding every action revolving around money is messed up.[/quote]

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