Reply to Second date or no?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Second date or no?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a stupid thing to get hung up on, but you should try to aim higher in terms of chemistry than "not repulsed by the thought of sleeping with them". Yikes. So my verdict is no second date, if that's the extent of your attraction. [/quote]

Some people find attraction to others based on the tiny acts of kindness and not necessarily chemistry.

Perhaps OP is one if those.

In my case,  I don't take chemistry seriously. I have it with too many people so it's meaningless. I am truly moved by the little things such as walking me to my car, opening doors for me. Telling someone I like these sort of  things wouldn't work ( I think? I have never dated someone who wouldn't) because this person would probably do them in the early stages and then quickly get tired because it's not something they think it's important.

My DH still opens doors for me 15 years later. It takes no effort for him because he believes that they are important. This and other really small gestures might be what keeps me wanting to jump him every time I see him. The original chemist could not survive a year without these 'gentlemanly' acts.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics