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[quote=Anonymous]My kids are teens. I dealt with this and the best strategy was to just build a life without him. I had so many friends that we would go and do things with, or I would take the kids by myself. Sad and TBH when we talk about the old days, he sometimes gets a look on his face like wait, where was I? You were watching football all weekend because that was your priority. You thought you deserved it bc you worked hard all week. (Yes, I worked too, but with a more flexible schedule/from home/etc when they were young). I would not change anything about my response to his behavior. Trying to get him to participate never ended well. Either he would not come along and there was an argument about it, or he would participate and be a grouch about it. I have years of memories of beach trips, hikes, coaching the kids' sports that were all me. Sad, yes, but I am so glad I did not cancel plans or not make them so that I could operate on his schedule. [/quote]
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