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[quote=Anonymous]NP.
Wow, people who think this is abhorrent child abuse must come from the most wonderful privileged of upbringings. Bless you.

This behavior is not okay and definitely can cause some harm to your child and particularly if it continues and/or increases, as I am sure you are well aware.

I grew up in a very loving family of uneducated, traditional folks who I learned over time had mixed upbringings of abuse and/or no emotions. My parents were determined to not be that way, but they still spaniels us, had short fuses, got
Angry over things like spilled milk, etc. it took me years, about 37 of them, to realize this is not normal adult behavior, but also that they loved and did their very best with us.

As a parent now for three years,  I see similar tendencies for me to be short fused and angry and have even roughly grabbed my child once. Granted he was sitting on my newborn. Either way, yes I have my own issues to work through but I’m much better than my parents who are much better than theirs. As long as your spouse acknowledges and is trying to work on this and doesn’t get worse you can get through this.

I appreciate all the helpful tips for me as well![/quote]

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