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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, do you have kids yourself?[/quote]

Yes, I do but I had kids at least 5, in some cases 8years before my friends. My kids are now 12 and 15 and they’re not much work (except driving them around), but a lot of joy. My parents are also older, in fact my father died long ago. I miss him but the pain isn’t fresh. They mostly have their parents still, and they are feeling ok. Some are really unhappy financially and with their husbands, I think that’s the biggest complaint I’ve heard. Also maybe they don’t like their careers. They didn’t complain about their parents or kids though.[/quote]
Maybe they thought since you are a friend they can complain to you and tell you how it is for them? You are here complaining about your friends complaining, not that different, are you?[/quote]

You misunderstood me completely. I am happy that they are real friends and can confide in me, just like I confide in them. I am sad that despite their beautiful lives, they are not happy. I didn’t know that, and it doesn’t provide me comfort that they are even unhappier than me. I want them to be happy and enjoy life. I love them.l, they’ve been friends for over 30 years, and we’ve remained friends across time and distance. [/quote]
What? They confided in you, and you went broadcasting it on a social media platform? You know nothing about their lives, you are projecting and bragging that you are happier.[/quote]

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