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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They don’t trust you. The way that you earn trust is good behavior + time. You may have started to engage in good behavior (not drinking), but not enough time has passed. Focus on your recovery and engaging in healthy behaviors. Stop trying to find blame with them and instead focus on what you need to do. [/quote]

Yes. You don't need to go to AA (it's not for everyone and doesn't always have positive results), but you DO need to work on yourself.[/quote]

Where did I say I blame them?

I was drinking too much and I stopped.[b] [u]I didn't do anything to anyone [/u][/b]and the last thing I need is to sit around talking about drinking or "recover.," I was coping with some intensely personal trauma and in a lot of pain and that situation ended. It's that simple. But now I'm blocked. I don't feel the need to prove anything or regain trust when this is my business. The blocking is such an insult it's unforgivable and it's their choice, I don't blame or not blame anyone or anything. [/quote]

Clearly you did or they would have had no reason to block you.  Until you can be honest about how your behavior affected others, much less tried to fix it, you haven't earned trust back.
"when this is my business" - well clearly you weren't able to keep your business to yourself.  It's good that you have changed but you did damage others in the process regardless of what you think.  You have to own that.[/quote]

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