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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sure , it’s resource guarding, and happens in parent groups as much as it does is feral dogs and rats. If a good teacher’s contact information gets out to the general public, it gets harder and more expensive to book sessions, not to mention they’re just not such a Special secret any more.

As far as giving info to friends, you could maybe ask if the person would give your info to the teacher if they are uncomfortable giving out the teachers credentials without their permission, but I don’t think that’s the case. [/quote]

Yep.  When I find a good teacher/tutor, babysitter, etc. I don’t share it with random Facebook people.  It is hard to find good services and quality instruction, for anything.  The more people you share with, the harder it is to schedule appts or get the schedule you want for yourself [/quote]

:shock: no, that is a shameful attitude. People with an ounce of kindness share regularly share resources with each other and with anyone who is looking.  [/quote]

I agree. I think the people who hoard are pathetic. I have a kid with sns and one of the moms I helped the most and directed to good tutors refused to share the name of the executive functioning coach she found. I stopped talking to her and think of her as a jerk. Some people are selfish and are more comfortable with taking. [/quote]

Maybe they are already hard to get an appointment with? Or maybe she knows this coach is already booked out and not looking for new clients.  It isn’t hoarding to not give out the name and contact number of someone you use for a service.  This isn’t toilet paper.  They aren’t hiring up every executive function coach in town.  They use one.  Not sharing their name does not mean hoarding.  [/quote]

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