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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you [i]really[/i] know about their fiances??? We bought a second home (million dollar home) without selling first. We had over 20% saved for downpayment without making a significant dent in other savings, proceeds from another home or inheritance. We did get some weird (to say the least) comments from a few friends that apparently assumed our HHI was much lower than it is. This, I think, is because we are very frugal, never talk $ and don't drive flashy cars, etc. We both are usually silent when people start doing the 'Jones' talk or bragging about status/$. That sh*t always makes me uncomfortable. I was raised not to talk about those things. Unless- of course I am on an anon. forum!--I am a fed and I think many of them thought I make around 60k--when I really make 150k...and DH makes 3 times my salary. I guess since he is in IT (and not biglaw or a dr, etc.) ppl never assumed he was making as 400k+/yr. We have no debt other than mortgage and a ton of savings. I really don't think you can [i]assume[/i] anything about them. So what if they did inherit some $, etc. Also- it is really kind of evil to be spreading gossip or talking behind their back (accusing them of living beyond their means or being spendthrifts) without any direct knowledge. If your friends are decent people they never would discuss their salary/financial situation except with accountant/financial planner or amongst themselves.[/quote] how is posting on anonymous forum spreading rumor?[/quote]
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