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Reply to "Do you think antidepressants would help with this pattern of fighting with DH?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, stop looking to change him and focus on chasing yourself through individual therapy, and perhaps your own medication if needed/warranted. You know the cycle, yet you continue to perpetuate through your actions. There are trust issues, yet yiu accept them enough that he fails the test, every time, You know you won’t be an apology, but you make that your “drop dead” line. Then, it’s not even a real drop dead - you wait around and drama the whole scenario into an apology. Being in an abusive and dysfunctional relationship may not be your “fault”, but your side of perpetuating the cycle is. Stop focusing on controlling and changing HIM and focus on changing yourself so you don’t have to live this way any more.[/quote]
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