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Reply to "Do you think antidepressants would help with this pattern of fighting with DH?"
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[quote=Anonymous]If you want to push psychotropic drugs, push them on yourself. You’re married. You’re stuck with each other. Unless he’s physically assaulting you, drinking up the rent money or whoring around, your best and probably only chance for a successful relationship is to accept each other and go on from there. What you experience as disrespect may not seem that at to him. You probably do plenty of things that bug him. If you want certain behaviors it is much more effective to encourage and reinforce those than to “be assertive” when all that does is provoke him. PP’s are correct that you both need communication training and help developing mutual empathy. You might look into Imago training. But as long as you think he’s the problem, this will go nowhere. It is much more profitable to ask what you’re bringing to the conflict. You can change your behavior a lot faster than you can force him to change his. [/quote]
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