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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you blaming only one person? It’s not as if he didn’t know what wes going on.[/quote]

I blame them both. But more her because she never worked so I would think she would at least know her financial status. I don’t know why she keeps spending so much.

My husband blames his dad for not keeping an eye on things himself.[/quote]

Sounds like you resent her because she was a SAHM and you can't afford that with the money your husband makes.  [/quote]

Op here. Very big leap about me. I don’t resent her at all. I’m actually going to stay home after I deliver my baby and my husband makes more than enough thank you. 
In a way I think my husband actually resents her because he had to pay for his college and she had the opportunity to save for it and didn’t. That’s the only resentment I can think of. [/quote]

DP.  I agree with the poster you're responding to that you seem to have a very big chip on your shoulder.  As far as your husband having to pay for his own college experience, well, whatever.  Almost 60% of all college graduates pay for their own college expenses (tuition, room/board).  Your husband is in the majority.  It is a luxury to have it any other way.[/quote]

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