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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve realized I’m a lot more calm, organized, upbeat when he’s not around… [/quote] OP. That’s how I feel. My life is so much better when H is out of town. I eat healthy at every meal (he only does takeout on his dinner nights). I have time for my hobbies, even with all the kid duties. The house is clean because his stuff isnt scattered everywhere. I can go to bed on time, I don’t have to stay up late with him out of a sense of obligation. Work/life balance is better.[/quote] I think this is how the neater/more organized spouse feels in every marriage. It doesn't have to mean that the marriage is finished, though. You have to accept some mess and compromise to be close with others.[/quote] My house growing up was neat enough in every room. Sure there was mess maybe in one area of the house at a time, but that lasted for 2 days max other than a pile of papers on one table in the office. Never more than a week other than the papers. People knew how to put stuff away after they used it at least eventually when they had a moment to clean up.[/quote]
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