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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you can do it, and guess what--if you fail thanks to idiot sibs who can't get their sh!t together to get you documents, well, you get an extension, or a fine, or maybe everything goes to hell and nobody gets anything or gets less then they could have.  SO WHAT.  It's not life or death!

Re telling your sibs, agree with PP that you will probably not get the reaction you hope for.  You're not going to have the "picket fence" relationship with your sibs, so stop trying.

Surround yourself with people who shore you up, OP, not those who drag you down or suck you dry.

Which brings us to the DH.  Give these documents one last push, then let the chips fall where they may, and after a breather, plan to mentally move away from this marriage, which, also, is not the "picket fence" marriage and never will be because it takes two to get even close to that, and he's not participating.

This is just a moment in time.  A really sh!tty moment.  But just one moment.  There will be better moments.  You just have to set them up and sow your garden with flower seeds, not weed seeds. And get rid of the existing weeds and pay more attention and tend those existing flowers.[/quote]

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