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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As sh!tty as this DCUM can be, I think this is an area where you can find the support you need that you can't find in your real life.  I'm the PP who is at an age that I don't have any more f@cks to give.  I wish you were in the place that I'm at now.  I don't know why it took me so long to get to this place but I chalk it up to conditioning - both by family and by society.

I agree with PPs that have said you no longer need to feel compelled to keep secrets.  Yes, it can be re-traumatizing to bring it up and not be believed.  This is where not giving a f@ck comes in handy.

I also agree with the PP said that you don't need your DH.  Again, this is where not giving a f@ck can come in handy.  I guess it's about knowing, really knowing, your worth.  You ARE an amazing person, OP!  I wish I knew you in real life so we could have coffee and I could tell you that you CAN do this on your own.  You've done so much already.  Now it's time to really own your life.  Do it!  Hugs![/quote]

This really made me feel better. All day I have been thinking about suicide and how I would do it. This really helped me as did other PPs comments. Thank you.[/quote]

Oh, hugs OP. Please call your therapist and a friend and hang on.

Re the point about your friends judging if you stay with your husband. Not sure how old you are, but I’m 50, and at this point, everyone knows relationships are complicated and imperfect. Particularly if you have kids or other commitments. Don’t know that your friends will have f@cks to give on that point either, though I agree with the others that you’ll be just fine without him.[/quote]

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