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[quote=Anonymous]I only have two kids but I felt the same way you did when my kids were babies/preschoolers. I had a really demanding job and it just felt like way too much. I decided to go part-time (which saved my sanity) but I am so glad that I did not quit and that I stayed in the game. I don't know what industry your husband is in but there is no sure thing. I can't tell you how many lawyers, for example, that I have seen lose their jobs over the years or get flushed out of law firms even after making partner because they could not build a book of business. My kids are in high school now and my career has exploded (in a good way) over the last five years. I make more money now than I could have ever imagined and it feels absolutely awesome to be able to financially provide for my family, and to not feel dependent on someone else to provide me with the type of lifestyle that I want (which is one where we do not worry about money). I am at an age where I am seeing all of my hard work really come to fruition and I get a lot of personal satisfaction and socialization/friendships through work. I like being around people who see me as more than just a "mother" and "wife." Our household also feels like a true partnership since both my husband and I are equal contributors to our income, the running of the house, the kids, the pets, etc. All this to say, if you can find a way to go part-time or make your job less intense for a period of time, I would recommend doing that versus opting out entirely. [/quote]
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